It took Thomas 5 years to propose to me! The reason, I played it cool and didn’t drop hints or lay down ultimatums was because, Thomas had been engaged before, to a lady called Uzo. This was about 3 years before I came into the picture. But a month before the wedding, on her hen night, she cheated on him with the stripper that was hired and continued an affair with him (Yes!! jist for another real talk Friday). So needless to say Thomas was not looking at engaging anyone else in a hurry. Fast forward to today, Thomas proposed to me, with an amazing 18 carat White Gold Split Shank Pave Halo engagement ring. I absolutely love the ring. I was showing my ring off to my soon to be sister in law when she mentioned that it looked just like the one he proposed to Uzo with. I did some research and found that it’s the exact same freaking ring, not a similar one o, exact same ring. She returned it to him and he gave it to me (in a nutshell). At the moment, I don’t know how I feel. I love the ring and I love the man, but at the same time don’t want something he didn't get thinking of me. My sister says "he should get a ring to fit the girl, not a girl to fit the ring" is this a non-issue, am I reading too much into this?